Gentle Giants

My sweet friends!

If you have a free moment I could use some spiritual healing.

Tonight after an already emotional day I was driving home and watched as a truck hit a deer crossing the road and kept on driving, they didn’t even slow down. And unfortunately the beautiful deer did not die on impact, instead she stumbled to the side of the road.

Without even thinking, I immediately pulled over, ran across the road and rushed over to her. She was scared when I approached her but quickly calmed down as I sat down beside her, I was balling.

I stroked her fur and cried and told her how sorry I was. Her buck came to check on her, saw me and went along his way.

A few other cars pulled over to see if I needed any help and all I could do was cry. We called the police but there is not much they could or would do. 

Here I was sitting on the side of the road in the dirt, trying my best to calm this poor animal down. She was shaking and her back was arching in pain. A wild creature was letting me pet her and share my energy with her.  All I wanted to do was make sure she knew she was not alone.  I couldn’t leave her while he was still alive and scared.

It took about 10 minutes of her suffering and me petting her before she finally passed, but I am still devastated. I feel I could have done more, I keep seeing her and the image of when she was struck. I am angry at the person driving the truck *furious is more accurate* and saddened for this poor beauty.  I am just in a sad space and this is unusual for me. I am the type of person who will and has pulled over to help any animal that needs it. Some I have regrets on but nothing like this.

So here is how you can help me heal. It is one word…. Compassion!   Compassion is what separates us from the monsters in this world. This Gentle Giant was so scared, and in so much pain.  It is our responsibility to SLOW down, it is our responsibility to PAY ATTENTION and if an accident happens, it is our job to HELP.  This poor deer didn’t have to die and she deserved better then to die alone & scared. That is what I was able to do for her. I wasn’t able to prevent it, I wasn’t able to save her, but I was able to be there with her.

I will forever hold this Gentle Giants beauty in my heart and I hope you will be able to as well. ❤ Thanks so much!

Baby its cold outside

Plain & Simple. If we are cold then they are cold!

We have all come up with this misconception that because animals have fur they are immune to the cold freezing weather. The truth is, they are just as vulnerable to the cold as we are.  Yes their ancestors were maybe better equipped to handle the cold, but if your pet has ever lived inside then they are NOT going to be ok outside.

Animals feel pain, they feel hurt, they feel sadness. Cats, Dogs, Horses, they all need to be protected when our weather gets too cold.

Imagine you are put outside with a coat on (equivalent to their fur coats). No hat, no gloves, no scarf… just a coat.   Now imagine how long it will take you before you start to get cold, before you start to shiver, before you start to feel miserable!

Did you know animals can get frost bite too? Did you know they need a shelter, a place to escape from the cold?

Animals in the wild protect themselves, they seek shelter out of the direct cold, they sleep together in packs or groups to maintain warmth, they don’t leave their shelters during extreme cold.

So please, protect your babies (you are the ONLY voice they have & the ONLY protection they have). So be kind, keep your animals inside during the cold.  With horses, please put protective blankets on them & make sure they have shelter out of the straight cold.

PS – Anything below 40 degrees animals should not spend more then 10-15 minutes in!

🙂

Bzzzzzzzz…. Bees!

I will be the first to admit it, I still totally freak out when I see or hear a bee near me or my kids.  I don’t know what that fear is driven from. Yes I have been stung before, yes it really hurt, but the bee world must be a lot scarier then my world with them around me.

Think about it, they work harder then any other creature I can think of. They are loyal to their queen (to a fault), and they help make this planet so beautiful and luscious!

So why are we so scared of them? Why do we pay hundreds of dollars to a pest control company to kill them? Why do we “farm” them?  Huh, I honestly don’t know why.

Bees are naturally a very fascinating insect. We have all heard the stories that bees defy the laws of nature by being able to fly with such tiny wings & big bodies. We have heard that through their pollination we are able to enjoy plants, trees, flowers, etc. and we have all heard that Bees are vital to our survival.

The buzz on bees in my opinion is this. They are not out to hurt anyone. They are not viscous creatures that need to be exterminated. Yes they have a defense mechanism to protect themselves (which actually kills them) but every animal has a way to protect themselves and most other creatures’ defense does a lot more harmful damage to humans then bees do.

So thank you to all the bees out there that continue despite our best efforts to destroy them. Thank you to all the people out there that are fighting to protect these innocent bugs.

They have an energy too, they have loyalty, they have drive, they have versatility, they have spirits. And for that, I respect them!

Choosing to Eat Meat

SO I personally choose to NOT eat meat as well as my Sister but my husband and children enjoy meat so I make it for them.  Today I saw on the news that a simi-truck had rolled over carrying pork. This made me incredibly sad. Not only do those poor pigs have to live a life in a small cage that they can’t turn around in for their entire lives 24-7 (animal cruelty if you ask me) but then they are killed in a horrible way (a sharp stabbing device straight through their heads) and now their meat which they gave their lives for is ruined. It is a shame!

But I am not about to try to convince the world that Pigs are beautiful, intelligent, smart, loving creatures and shouldn’t be treated so horrible, AND this is not just with Pigs, but Cows (the way they get our milk and essentially steal the babies from the mommies), or Chickens too (they way they cut off the beaks of new chicks so they dont fight when they are older and are stuffed into a large pin to live) all of this is cruelty and all of this needs to change, instead I am going to offer an alternate.

I understand that we are carnivores as a species and enjoy meat. I get that. What I am proposing is that we get back to our ancestral roots where we HONOR and RESPECT the animals and their sacrifice for us to enjoy meat.  We should be loving these animals because in reality their meat is affected by their energy. What type of energy do you think an animal is putting off into their blood, their tissue, their bodies when they are held in tight captivity and treated poorly instead of feeling LOVE and RESPECT and then yes when the time comes for them to die, dying in a place of peace. I personally would be able to eat meat again if I knew that the animals were free-range, living good lives, and then being killed humanely and without cruelty. How about you?

Since I am not in a position to change the industry yet, how about we start with our own hearts & spirits. Before you take a bite, say a silent thank you to the animal that gave its life for you to eat. Wish their energy love and peace. Make it right in the universe and then we can bring all that positive energy back to us and hopefully one day change the system.

ALL LIVES MATTER, animals, humans, insects, etc. They all have a spirit, they all have the ability to love & feel and they all should be treated with the same amount of respect.

Forgiveness. Part II

So I know I have wrote about forgiveness before and it is a constant choice to love a persons spirit even if you can’t forgive them. AND that is the key!

Is it possible to Love someone and NOT forgive them? What does that mean to your spirit?

Well lets take this down a notch. I was listening to the radio the other day and a song was on that I have heard a thousand times, but a line in this song really stuck out to me this time: “Band-aids don’t fix bullet holes, you say sorry just for show…”. Well this definitely meant something to me as I have been struggling with forgiving someone who metaphorically speaking SHOT me several times! Then this person never truly apologized to me, instead she had to be told to apologize and even that was lame.

SO what is the point of this story? As much as this person hurt me (and still hurts today)  I would never wish anything bad to happen to this person. I love the spirit she has because I know that her behavior & actions are NOT a result of her spirit, but rather a result of her programs.

AND that is the difference. I can love her spirit, I can accept who this person is and know that there is good there, even if I am unable to forgive her actions & behavior. So can you.

We each have a choice to make every day, we have ALL been bullied, abused, talked about, lied to, used, and treated poorly. No one is an exception to that. What is an exception is how we choose to live after those things have happened.

I choose to live in love. I choose to only allow people into my world that love me or that I love. I choose to ignore the lies, the hate, the mis-treatment and know that the way they are treating me actually has nothing to do with me. It is a direct reflection onto them & their own issues, insecurities, and pain (soak that one in for a minute).

I have learned through several tears that sometimes people are SO wrapped up in themselves and what is going to make them happy or benefit them that they are unable to see what they do to people around them.

Today I ask you a favor… take someone who has hurt you and look at their spirit (the person they are when no one is looking). It may be hard at first to see this spirit because of their behavior & actions, but trust me it is there.

Now, once you can see that spirit, love it.     You don’t ever have to tell that person that you love them or their spirit (that is your choice), but once you allow that love into your heart for their spirit YOU will be able to move past the pain they caused.  You do NOT have to forgive (forgiveness means you are allowing them back into your world) and not everyone deserves forgiveness, but every single living thing on this planet deserves your LOVE <3!

Bears, Oh My!

I read a story last night that a Momma Black bear & her 2 cubs were spotted in a residential area. A few days later that same Momma & Cubs were close to a mans property and he shot & killed the 2 babies because he was “fearful for his dogs life.”

I cried. The Momma bear refused to come down from the tree she took shelter in after her babies were killed.  I cried again.  These bears were not endangering anyone. They were spotted several times over a few days and they were minding their own business. The babies were just following Momma.

I felt anger, sadness, hurt, and love. Love for that Momma and love for her 2 lost babies. I said I prayer to her and for her to help her heal from that pain. Did you know the saying “Protect my children like a Momma Bear!”? Did you know its because the love that a Mother Bear has for her cubs is paralleled to a Human Mothers love?

I personally could not imagine what it would feel like or be like to be with my babies and have someone kill them in front of me because they were simply scared. It is unimaginable.

Now, there is the anger for this man. But then I have to go to the logic of what if he really did think his dog was in danger? He loved his dog that much to protect him. Right?! Wrong! The time it took for him to go inside, grab his weapon, load his weapon, go back outside, aim and shoot not once, but twice killing BOTH babies was simply INHUMANE! He is simply an ignorant man who is now hiding behind a story.

I cried some more.  I wish I knew how to stop the fear & killing. I wish I knew how to get people to feel the spirits of the world around them. I wish I knew how to tap into everyone’s spirit & show them the beauty that is in these other animals we SHARE a planet with.  We are NOT Gods, we do NOT automatically have the right to kill innocent animals simply because we want to! We are ALL placed here on this planet, we ALL live here and we all deserve to live in peace!

Tonights post is not about a change, it is about a sad story that happens all too often and I needed to express my pain for this Momma & her Babies…..

❤ ❤ ❤  Rest Babies & Allow the Momma to heal. Please surround her with your light and see her able to move past the pain of losing her babies that she carried, delivered, protected, fed, played with, and loved.

Movies, Books, & More…

My son is reading a book right now called Maze Runners. He was extremely excited to start reading this as he loves science fiction. But something happened to him tonight, he got to a chapter where there is a boy (teenager I believe) that essentially was poisoned and sent out of the group & left to die.   Well, with the values we have instilled in our children and with my son being who he is, this made him very upset and angry. So much though that he wanted to throw the book away.

The reason he was so upset was a) the thought of that happening in real life made him very sad and b) he couldn’t understand why someone would even right about something horrible like that. The thought of a person being capable of things let alone writing about them made him angry. And THAT got me thinking….

Why do we put that energy out there? Why do we love to watch scary movies like Hunger Games, Divergent, & other movies along those lines, read thriller books, get hooked on the awful TV shows like Bones, NCIS, Criminal Minds, Law & Order, and all the other tv shows alike?  Are we encouraging this unbelievable behavior in our world because it is what sells?

I am not one of those parents who blame tv, movies, or video games for the actions of people, BUT I am one of those moms who does not allow video games where there is murder or physical assault. I DO believe that when we see it enough, we become numb to it and in so doing we are less likely to respect the life that surrounds us.

So onto tonight’s main topic: How to respect the spirit while enjoying those types of entertainment.

The way I see it, we can either allow those forms of entertainment to consume us and alter our values, we can enjoy them for what they are (entertainment) while maintaining our values, or we can choose to not allow them into our world.

When my children ask me if they can watch a certain movie/show or read a book the only thing that I even think about is “How is this going to effect their ‘beingness’?” What I mean by that is, will this [book or movie/show] change the way they see the world for better or worse?

I recently read a study that stated that 50% of how a person thinks about themselves & the world around them (this is called their programming) is already determined by the time they are 8 years old, 80% by the time they are 13 years old, and 95% by the time they are 18 years old!  What this means is if I as a parent allow them to see the negative things that exist in our world at too young an age this will become a permanent part of their view on the world, but if I continue to fill their world with love & honor their spirit then they will essentially have a view of love in the world. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to shelter them from the world because then they will have a very hard time adjusting as an adult, but it is about balance and timing.

Obviously my son is learning that there are people out there that turn our nightmares into entertainment, but that doesn’t make them bad. How I explained it to him was like this, every spirit is made up of energy, and each energy comprises of dark & light. Therefore each spirit has good and bad, it is up to us to decide how we want our energy to be used. There is nothing wrong with writing or creating entertainment. We as people choose to watch the scary movie knowing we will be scared, we choose to see the romantic drama knowing we will cry, we choose to read certain books knowing what the baseline is about. It is not as though they place a picture of a happy bunny on the cover and lie to us.

Just as we know these things, we must also know that it doesn’t change us. And if he really wanted to make a difference then he should write a book filled with love & make that a best seller so less people will buy the “horrifying” books (that made him smile & get a little motivated) 🙂

In the end each of us still has a pure heart & spirit and choosing to watch a movie, show, or read a book that doesn’t necessarily align with our values doesn’t mean we are “lost” or turning bad. There is no such thing.

So love yourself, love your spirit, and enjoy your entertainment but PLEASE protect your children’s developing programs and introduce them to things as they grow & as they are ready. ❤

Tap into your Spirit

Do you ever just sit outside, gaze off into the sky, feel the breeze against your skin, take a deep breath and then just….. feel at peace?  Well that is exactly what it is like to tap into your spirit.

Now we all know we have a spirit and we all know our pure emotions are connected to that spirit, but how do we set aside the conscience brain and “programming” and just feel what it is our spirit is telling us?

Well, we start with these easy reminders:

  1. Does it feel right?  Your spirit always knows before your conscience mind does if a situation is not right. Some people call it your “gut”, others call it an “instinct” but no matter what you call it, it is your spirit talking.   Today I saw a great saying on facebook:  “Never discredit your gut instinct. You are not paranoid. Your body can pick up on bad vibrations. If something deep inside of you says something is not right, trust it.” ~ Spirit Science.
  2. Does it make me happy?  Your spirit is the essence of you. You are an energy made from love. Universal karma happens to you because your energy attracts that into your life. So for the universe to attract good energy to you, you need to put out good energy.  Happiness isn’t about what things you have, who likes you, what you’re doing… no, happiness comes from taking a moment to yourself and smiling within because you know yourself. You know your thoughts, your emotions, and your actions are all in your control. Some call it “emotional maturity”.
  3. Am I thinking/doing this for something other then love? Basically, if it isn’t to grow love then it is driven by your mind not your spirit. Now there is nothing wrong with you using your mind. In fact, you can not survive without it. But this is about tapping into your spirit more to find balance in your world.

So here are the benefits for truly knowing your spirit:

  1. Health.  Yes it is an actual fact that using meditation techniques can improve your health. What do you think meditation is? It is tapping into your spirit and getting balanced. 🙂
  2. Stress.  The things that stress you out are because you are worried about the outcome. When you tap into your spirit you know that the universe delivers exactly what it is suppose to and when (corny yes I know) but having a connection to yourself on that level means you know that the things you’re stressing over aren’t worth it and the things that are worth it wont turn out the way you want if you stress over them.
  3. Intimacy. Since I have younger readers I wont go into details. BUT when you are truly in tune with your spirit you will move beyond the physical appearance and physical pleasures onto a new level with not only your spirit but your partners as well. ❤

So what is it like for me you ask when I am outside or sitting at the window? I love it. Sometimes I listen to the nature sounds around me, sometimes I just breath in and out while calming myself, sometimes I think about how vast our universe is and all the possibilities that await, and sometimes I use it as a time to tap into spirits that are no longer in a physical form. Now before you start getting all “uigi boards and witchcraft” on me let me explain that last one.  Spirits are an energy, energy never dies, so when a spirit is no longer attached to a body it is an everlasting energy. And the little we know about energy is it can be tapped into.

I lost my Daddy & my Grandma within a year of each other and there are times where I need to feel their love & guidance for me.  SO I stare at the clouds, breath in, and allow that energy of my Dad or Grandma to surround me. Instantly I feel them and instantly I feel at peace.

I meditate daily and I encourage you to as well. It doesn’t have to be a long process, take 10 minutes, or 5, or even 2 minutes to breath in the air and center yourself. While you’re driving to work, or walking to check the mail, or sitting in the living room and have a window near by. Tap into your spirit to see how you’re doing, how you’re feeling, what happened in your world today, OR what you want this day to FEEL like (you aren’t in control of others actions so the day is subject to everyone you interact with, but no one can control how you feel).

Moving forward, enjoy your spirit because it is going to be with you forever!

SSSSSSSSnakes!

I need to address this animal. Snakes.

My son is currently obsessed with snakes. Me personally, I don’t want one in my house. I lived with a room mate out of high school that had a 10′ python and quite frankly it scared the begeebies out of me. BUT he is very much seeing the good and pure side of them.

SO, he has been asking me & my husband daily for a pet snake and of course we are continuously saying no. But I didn’t want to see that crushed look on my sons face so I took him to a local exotic pet store so he could learn more about snakes and get to interact with them.

While we were there he was holding this corn snake and it truly seemed to have a connection with him. It was wrapped around his hand and arm and they were walking around the store together. I decided to get closer to see my son with this slithering animal in his hands… and I swear it looked like the snake was smiling!

I looked into this animals eyes and for the first time I didn’t feel frightened. I saw this animals spirit and felt the energy connection between this snake and my son.

Now I know what you’re thinking…. did I buy this snake for my son?   Sadly the answer is No.  My son has had fish and a frog in the past and he takes care of feeding them but he never cleaned their tanks or cages (my husband and I did) and I will not be able to change a snakes cage (no matter what I see in this animals spirit).  PLUS we have other animals in this house that would love to make this small snake its snack and I know my son would be devastated.

SO for now my son is still snakeless (we will see if this changes by Christmas & IF that snake is still available… shhhhh don’t tell my son).

Who would have thought that I would EVER have seen anything good and pure in a snake, but thanks to my amazing son & his spirit I have changed. I now know that there is more to them then I gave them credit for. They too have spirits, they too have feelings.

Huh, I wonder what I will learn tomorrow 🙂

Stepping into your pets “shoes”

We all love our animals, at least I would like to believe that we do. I mean why else would we bring them into our lives and essentially adopt them?

Just like children, animals don’t have a voice or a choice on which family they end up with.  I once read a great saying and it has stuck with me…. “Your pet may be a small part of your life, but you are their WHOLE life!”   Wow, it is so true.   Your pet relies on you for everything, love, companionship, food, water, shelter, safety.

So lets role play for a minute, bare with me here. 🙂  Close your eyes, and put yourself in your mind in an empty room. Now, in this room you look down and discover you have paws. You look up and there is your human, arms out and picking you up. YAY, you have a new forever home (or you hope so).

Ok I am not going to make you role play an entire animals life. So I am going to pick 2 scenarios…. Scenario #1 – now you’re at your home & you are so excited, you want to play and snuggle and love. But you are being put into a cage that is not much bigger then your body. You are left in there for hours and hours, bored out of your mind, hearing all the fun things going on around you. Maybe you have to pee, maybe you are hungry, maybe your lonely & sad. You don’t have a way to communicate, other then bark or whine which gets you in trouble. You don’t have a way to entertain yourself, and all you want is for that human to love you & be around you.   Ok, I have to stop there as I am crying while I am typing this.

Do you see where I am going? I can’t even do a second scenario because the truth is, if you read that & truly put yourself into that & didn’t feel the sadness, then I don’t think a second scenario would change that.

Just so you know, the second scenario was an animal that just wants to do good, and be good, and be loved & adored but instead is the scapegoat for all the anger & frustration that goes in and in turn gets physically & emotionally hurt.  You can do this on your own if you want to or maybe I will be able to do it in a later post but for now I am getting worked up & I don’t want to.

Animals (pets) are a gift, they are the purest things we can bring into our lives.  They will not only be a great source of comfort with their unconditional love, but they are the greatest teachers in forgiveness!  Think about it, people can do unimaginable things to pets & they will still wag their tales or lick your face if you let them. WOW, the amount of pureness that takes is amazing.

So here is what I ask of you… please if you are going to get a pet know that it is a lifetime commitment (their lives, not yours as they don’t get to live as long as we do), it is not their choice to be with you so if you choose them give them the best.  They are not toys, or a temporary fix to an emotional problem. They are a spirit, a beacon of love & they deserve the best life we can give them.  IF you already have a pet, make the choice from this day forward to try to show them the same love they show you 🙂

PS – this is for all pets – dogs, cats, fish, horses, pigs, birds, snakes, ferrets, hedgehogs, chickens, turtles, lizards, and ANY other type of pet you have.  🙂